Alludra the Mannerly Mage here, helping you become the
player all the gamers want to group with!
It seems I gave out some controversial advice! Yes I knew
not everyone would be thrilled with me for suggesting that players go ahead and
block people to their hearts content, but I'm okay with that.
How okay? Well okay enough to keep blocking! Without explanations!
You see, no one has the power to dictate other people's
comfort levels with them, not only in game but out of game and in the real
world, so if someone says they wish to have zero contact with you in the future,
you don't get to find out why, you don't get to find out what went wrong. You
get to take their word for it, or their silence as an answer.
Because honestly? People don't like to be tracked down and
'convinced' that they are wrong, kinda reinforces that whole creepy OMG get me
out of here feeling that made the block happen in the first place.
So, unfortunately, you may never get to make those amends
but that's okay. Just move on and make a new friend. I mean, why bother with
someone who doesn't want you around in the first place?
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